We give rise to ego by being insecure...

Kanye's a gemini. I should have known.

Emotional Alchemy maps the mind and shows how, according to recent advances in cognitive therapy, most of what troubles us falls into ten basic emotional patterns, including fear of abandonment, social exclusion (the feeling we don't belong), and vulnerability (the feeling that some catastrophe will occur).

What's Your Emotional Style?

I'm a meld of Deprivation and Abandonment.

*L says this is the first step towards some/one/where/thing better.